aavruchJan 1, 20182 minAllow him to be your heroThis probably comes as a big surprise, but... your husband wants to be your knight in shining armor. When you give him that opportunity -...
Alisa AvruchApr 292 minWhen All You Can See is the Black DotHave you ever noticed that we are far more likely to notice the negatives than the positives? To test out this trait, try this experiment...
Alisa AvruchDec 19, 20213 minSubmissive wife - Or Mekabel?Have you been hearing what I'm hearing? An article in Mishpacha Magazine. A podcast episode on Headlines. All addressing the question:...
Alisa AvruchOct 19, 20213 minWhen logic just isn't enough.Sometimes your brain and your heart just can't seem to get along. It happens, oh, probably hundreds of times a day - when you KNOW you...
Alisa AvruchJul 26, 20213 minWhat's your excuse?Appreciation is a tricky thing. On the one hand, we know it's a nice thing to do. It creates warm feelings. And we certainly like it when...
Alisa AvruchJul 11, 20213 minWhat I learned from ShamuHe may be a whale, but he sure does have a lot to teach us about relationships. I'm always on the lookout for practical tips that will...
Alisa AvruchJun 20, 20213 minDon't you wish there was an Adulting class?Why is it that we learned all the stuff we don't need and don't remember, while the rules of Real Life we are left to figure out on our...
Alisa AvruchMay 6, 20212 minYour husband is not your home-improvement projectDoes it feel like you're holding your world together with the strength of your own two hands? What would happen if you didn't feel the...
Alisa AvruchMay 6, 20213 minHow I got Cancelled on InstagramI knew that some of the concepts in the Secret Spark are not universally appreciated (especially by people who have never actually...
Alisa AvruchFeb 18, 20212 minHey - What About the Men?I sometimes get asked: Do you teach men, too? Or Why do you only teach women and not men? Or Why do most marriage coaches, speakers, and...
Alisa AvruchFeb 18, 20212 minWhen he forgets the most important day of the year...Sora had a beautiful relationship with her husband, Ezra. They were perfectly matched. Not because they liked the same style of music –...
Alisa AvruchFeb 14, 20212 minTry a Double TakeThere’s a feature that I love in Mishpacha Magazine. It’s called Double Take, and it’s a fictional story told twice: once from the...
Alisa AvruchJan 31, 20212 minDon't fix your problems (do this instead)I know how it is. You have so many things you wish you could change in your marriage - or in your husband. You wish he would help more he...
Alisa AvruchMay 14, 20202 minGetting his attentionYou know you want him to listen to you - but how do you actually get him to do it? The answer may be a lot simpler than you think. So I...
aavruchMay 11, 20202 minHearing his Heart MessageYou don't always have to agree with your husband. But what if you could minimize conflict and increase emotional intimacy, all with 3...
aavruchJul 10, 20192 minThe one skill that will change everythingYou can easily come up with a list of your husband's faults, right? But what if you tried coming up with a different list? Malki was...
aavruchJul 10, 20192 minThe sweetest wordsSure, communication is important. You know what you need, and you know what you want. In fact, you usually know the "rules" for running a...
aavruchJul 10, 20192 minYour husband, the talmid chachamDo you have engraved on your brain that it's your job to encourage your husband to learn? Sure, a wife has an equal share in her...
aavruchJul 10, 20192 minBorrow his brainWhen you ask his advice, you may just get a whole bunch of side benefits that you didn't expect. Did you ever have a decision to make?...