aavruch Jan 1, 2018 2 min Allow him to be your hero This probably comes as a big surprise, but... your husband wants to be your knight in shining armor. When you give him that opportunity -...
Alisa Avruch 6 days ago 3 min What's your excuse? Appreciation is a tricky thing. On the one hand, we know it's a nice thing to do. It creates warm feelings. And we certainly like it when...
Alisa Avruch Jul 11 3 min What I learned from Shamu He may be a whale, but he sure does have a lot to teach us about relationships. I'm always on the lookout for practical tips that will...
Alisa Avruch Jun 20 3 min Don't you wish there was an Adulting class? Why is it that we learned all the stuff we don't need and don't remember, while the rules of Real Life we are left to figure out on our...
Alisa Avruch May 6 2 min Your husband is not your home-improvement project Does it feel like you're holding your world together with the strength of your own two hands? What would happen if you didn't feel the...
Alisa Avruch May 6 3 min How I got Cancelled on Instagram I knew that some of the concepts in the Secret Spark are not universally appreciated (especially by people who have never actually...
Alisa Avruch Feb 18 2 min Hey - What About the Men? I sometimes get asked: Do you teach men, too? Or Why do you only teach women and not men? Or Why do most marriage coaches, speakers, and...
Alisa Avruch Feb 18 2 min When he forgets the most important day of the year... Sora had a beautiful relationship with her husband, Ezra. They were perfectly matched. Not because they liked the same style of music –...
Alisa Avruch Feb 14 2 min Try a Double Take There’s a feature that I love in Mishpacha Magazine. It’s called Double Take, and it’s a fictional story told twice: once from the...
Alisa Avruch Jan 31 2 min Don't fix your problems (do this instead) I know how it is. You have so many things you wish you could change in your marriage - or in your husband. You wish he would help more he...
Alisa Avruch May 14, 2020 2 min Getting his attention You know you want him to listen to you - but how do you actually get him to do it? The answer may be a lot simpler than you think. So I...
aavruch May 11, 2020 2 min Hearing his Heart Message You don't always have to agree with your husband. But what if you could minimize conflict and increase emotional intimacy, all with 3...
aavruch Jul 10, 2019 2 min The one skill that will change everything You can easily come up with a list of your husband's faults, right? But what if you tried coming up with a different list? Malki was...
aavruch Jul 10, 2019 2 min The sweetest words Sure, communication is important. You know what you need, and you know what you want. In fact, you usually know the "rules" for running a...
aavruch Jul 10, 2019 2 min Your husband, the talmid chacham Do you have engraved on your brain that it's your job to encourage your husband to learn? Sure, a wife has an equal share in her...
aavruch Jul 10, 2019 2 min Borrow his brain When you ask his advice, you may just get a whole bunch of side benefits that you didn't expect. Did you ever have a decision to make?...
